把親情放在適當的位置上，雙方都不致失落。人到中年，親情的互動，是階段性的幸福，不要賦予它太嚴肅的意義，也不要把它看得無足輕重。孩子不應永遠記住父母入骨的愛，那將使他們無法成長；父母也不應永遠記住自己對兒女所作的犧牲，那將使老人陷于期待回報的自憐。而且，事實上，孩子早已經用兒語、用擁抱、用一聲“媽媽，我好愛你啊！”一聲“爸爸，我要嫁一個像爸爸這樣的好丈夫！”完全回報了！是的，完全回報了。
Properly handled, parent-child relationship will leave neither of both sides a sense of loss. It is periodical happiness for parents to have interaction with children when stepping into middle age. However, we should not attach much serious significance to it, nor should we consider it insignificant. Children should not bear the deeply ingrained love of parents in mind for lifelong, which would hinder them from growing up. Nor should parents always remember the sacrifice they have made to their children, which would make the elderly feel trapped in the self-pity of expecting rewards. And. in fact, children have already fully reciprocated with baby-talks, hugs, and remarks likes “Mummy, I love you so much!” or “Daddy, I gonna marry a good man like you!” Yes, all of these are their love in return.
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